If anyone knows me, they know that I am never one to make a decision. If I do, it is after a long thought process, followed by a long conversation with someone to make sure I am making the right decision. Even after being given choices, I never like to make a decision because if something ends up going wrong or one party ends up being more fun than the one I chose, Iwould not want it to be my fault. I am the queen of hinting however. I tend to make hints especially if I do not like one of the options I am given. I do this because if the people I am talking to are truly listening to me, they will understand what I am saying and take it into consideration when they are making the decision.
I am also likely to use hints when trying to be polite, but still get the message across that I do not like what you are doing. I use hints to get the desired response that I want, without directly knowing if I hurt their feelings or helped to make a decision, important or not.
An example of when I used a hint was saying "I am getting a little tired, can we leave soon" to my boyfriend, instead of saying "you've had to much to drink, we have to leave!"
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