Relationships are Constantly Changing

There is no such thing as "happily ever after", unless you are watching a disney movie. When my boyfriend and I first started dating, it seemed like we would never fight. There would never be any differences that we would have to argue about, any feelings that would be different. But reality hit, which I knew would come about, but he did not. As you grow in a relationship, you learn more about the person and ideas may change. When I first started dating my boyfriend he did not have a job. It did not bother me at the time because he had just got laid off. After a few months however, my feelings changed, therefore our relationship changed. I felt that did not want to make an effort. He told me that I was making too big of deal about this, because I had no problem with it before. Because time goes by ideas and people change, so in order to keep the relationship happy and move into the "happily ever after" that does not really exist, my boyfriend needed to realize that we will have arguements, that does not mean that we do not like each other anymore, it just means we have a problem. Life goes around in a big circle and every once in a while there may be a bump in that circle but we need to get past it and the best way to do that is to communicate!